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The War Cry | APRIL 2013
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The War Cry | APRIL 2013
Challenging
Challenges
the
God Doesn't
Make Mistakes
by
MAJOR K. KENDALL MATHEWS
S
pringtime is upon us,
and flowers are bloom-
ing. Spring is a wonderful time to make
changes in our lives. As the sun and rain
reinvigorate God's creation this April, let us count
our blessings and realize that God wants us to be
blooming flowers -- unfolding under His grace,
love and spiritual beauty, as we are conformed
more and more to the character of His Son Jesus.
We all have the potential to be dazzling flowers -- waiting to
break out and flourish for everyone to see. One such dazzling
flower is my 19 year-old daughter KaShaye. She's an active soldier
of the St. Louis Adult Rehabilitation Center (ARC), and known as
the "Daughter of the House." She is a special girl who is moder-
ately autistic. Statistics say that one in a hundred children today
have autism. We never thought one of our five kids would be affected
by this condition. Nonetheless, she is one multi-colored flower, bright,
carefree and affectionate. Those who know her agree.
When she was 2, we noticed that her communication skills were
not like those of our other children. After testing by the school sys-
tem revealed that she had autism, we feared she would never blos-
som. But we accepted it and raised her just like our other children.
Our faith was tested, as we thought we had done something wrong.
We even blamed God, questioning why He would give us an autistic child.
Just last year KaShaye played Special Olympics basketball, and made
the high school honor roll. She loves listening to music, especially gospel
music, and reading books. She visited China last year. Becoming a world
traveler has always been one of her dreams.
Recently Kashaye was admitted to the hospital and given four pints of
blood. Our flower seemed to be withering, but we had faith. God's healing
hand and the prayerful love of others helped restore her.
If you have a special needs child,
know that God does not make mis-
takes. Trust Him with all your
heart and love your child with the
same love that God has for His
only begotten Son, Jesus Christ.
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